Analogy of Born in Mecca
The farther you get from Mecca
the more Heathens
the more Nonbelievers
the Lower the Quality of the Work done there.
repeated to me by Dora Hauser
“We should be careful to get out of an Experience only the Wisdom that is in it …
And stop there;
Lest we be like the cat that sits down on a hot stove lid.
She will never sit down on a hot stove lid again … and that is well;
but she will also never sit down on a cold one, anymore”.
Mark Twain,
given to Dad by Rachel,
Feb 28, 1987
Those who cannot remember the Past are Condemned to Repeat it.
George Santanya
A woman is like a tea bag …
You never know how strong she is
until you get her in hot water.
Eleanor Roosevelt,
contributed by Charles S. Thurston, M.D.
When I was about 18 years old,
and returned home from college one day,
I said to Saline Blackson, the black woman who had had been my Mom’s maid for many years, and who had helped Mom raise me:
“Saline, I’m sorry I was such a damned nuisance to you when I was a little boy growing up.”
to which she replied:
“Oh Son, don’t worry about that,
Everybody has to go up Fool’s Hill,
before they can get to the Other Side.”
WHAT THIS MEANS TO ME:
1. Everybody does some foolish stuff when growing up.
2. A lot of Wise Adults expect and recognize our childhood foolish behavior as one of the “Trappings of Youth,” and
3. they Forgive us, and
4. They Expect us to “Grow Out” of some of it … someday.
Robert Jorrie,
April 5, 1990
“Experience is the jockey,
Education is the horse”
taken from an old Clark Gable movie
Ordinary houseflies can be killed by:
certain bacteria,
fly swatters,
hammers,
hand grenades,
500 pound bombs,
and Hydrogen Bombs.
Each of these weapons is extremely effective in Exterminating houseflies …
THE PROBLEM IS THE SIDE EFFECTS OF THE WEAPON SELECTED.
Thus, when faced with a Problem,
the Enlightened General
selects the Smallest Weapon which will Do the Job …
WITH THE FEWEST SIDE EFFECTS.
Or in short, “DON’T NUKE THE HOUSEFLIES.”
Robert Jorrie
1978
It does not Matter whether a cat is Black or White,
as long as it catches Mice.
Deng Xiao Peng
Premier
People’s Republic of China
A College Education is a most important thing.
Of course, one of its major features is that it is a “door opening” credential that will help you find a job better than you could get without it.
But its most important aspect is that no matter what discipline you study (other than art, music and education),
A College Education teaches you “How to Think.”
And that is the Most Important Aspect it Has,
for it Serves you all your Life.
Science and engineering are especially good training in the methods of thinking.
How I Think you should address attending College:
Try to learn to get as much out of it as you can
and make special effort to learn it in such a manner that you will remember as much of what you learn1 as you can …
and not just employ just enough memory to “get you past the exam.”
1 After all, you or your parents pay huge dollars to be taught it, so you may as well try to learn it in a manner that you can “keep” as much of the benefit as you can.
Robert Jorrie
1. How to Win Friends and Influence People – Dale Carnegie
Outline this into 12 sentences: How to make people do what you want
2. The Naked Ape – Desmond Morris
3. The Human Zoo – Desmond Morris
Understanding Submissive Postures and How to Use them to achieve what you want
4. The Prince – N. d Machiavelli
How to get (and more importantly) How to Intelligently Use POWER
5. Psycho Cybernetics – Maxwell Maltz
Understanding your Mind as a goal seeking and achieving device
6. The Territorial Imperative – Robert Ardrey
The Territorial Defense mechanism and its Effect on men in business transactions
7. The Richest Man in Babylon
The proper use of cash (not credit)
8. Education of a Poker Player – Herbert Yardley
A good lesson in the philosophy of When to Play and Take a Chance
9. The Peter Principle
Understanding people in Organization
10. The Art of Negotiating – Gerald Niremberg
Basic understanding of what must happen in a negotiation if it is to succeed and you are to become a “deal-maker.” Also listen to the cassettes
11. Body Language
How to “Read” the adverse party in a negotiation
Other subjects for discourse on which I have strong feelings:
1. Understanding what “Success” really means and What is Required to Achieve it
2. How to borrow and pay back: the handling of bankers; the preparation and opening of the door when opportunity knocks
3. Definition of “Brilliance”
4. Giving … and its Science
5. Surrounding yourself with Genius and Synergism
Robert Jorrie