Title: There Are No Perfect Marriages
It is not possible to have a “perfect” marriage, because of the lack of identicality of any 2 persons,
The trouble is that no matter how good “the Match” of the couple is,
Over time, they get complacent,
And the good points of the marriage get taken for granted.
They usually don’t focus on how good the congruence is,
And how positive things truly are …
The parties “home in,” focus and even dwell on the only thing they can still see … the Differences between them!
Soon the “Good Parts” in the marriage dim in their consciousness,
And the unmatched parts become the center topic of controversy.
One needs perspective, to recognize “How Big” the “Good Part” is.
June 7, 1989